Top Dating Tips – Is Attraction a Science Or a Art Form?

October 30th, 2009

Hi Chris here,

If you are looking for top dating tips, then I’m glad you have stumbled upon Topdaingtips.org, this is the right place to look.  I would highly recommend that you read on…. Click here to see How I Went From a Avereged Guy to a Super-Player.

This is my story of how I was a everyday regular normal guy. I had literally struggled all my life to get girls.  I finally reached a point in my life where I was so desperate to learn how to get a date with women I just needed to do something.

I started to read every book and e-book i could get my hands on, I went on seminars about dating and how to pick up girls.  I went to clubs, bars and even in the store and tried to pick up girls with some of my openers i had learn over time. But think about it, even if you can have a great opener to get that first important contact with a girl you’ll need more. What to do after that first initial seconds of the conversation?

Oh sure, you could launch into…

  • “what’s your name?” or
  • “what do you do?”
  • “having a good time tonight?”

But that’s just plain boring.

You’re dooming yourself to failure and a boring, lifeless conversation.

Take it from me, because it’s exactly what used to do before I learned the ways of the pick up artist.

You need to continue that flow, you need to keep making her laugh, and you need to when and how to actually make your sexual advances. And if you don’t know how to do that… then it’s a skill you NEED to learn. Just like I did…

The book that changed my life and how I finally learned to meet women…

click here to check it out if you want

A few years back, as a kind of “last stab” at trying to get good at attracting women, I bought this book online. I remember it like it was yesterday…

I’d been at a friends party and once again, I’d failed to meet any girls.

So (as you do) I did a search on Google for something like “Top Dating Tips” or “how to meet women”. Soon enough, I came across this guide… this manual for seducing women. It had so many great success stories (check them out on the site – they’re unbelievable) that I bought it there and then.

I literally stayed up the whole night reading it cover to cover. It blew me away.  The book (guy gets girl) was like a step by step guide on exactly how to meet, approach and basically seduce women. I’d never seen anything like it.

If you’re interested, you check out the books website here.

Today, it’s still the best book on meeting women I’ve read (and I’ve bought quite a few since then). Guy gets girl is just so specific, that’s why I love it. It doesn’t faff around, it just tells you exactly how to seduce women.

So just to summarise this short post, you need more than just cheezy pick up lines (however good they might be) to be successful with women. And it’s a very in depth subject. So, I recommend you get a guide, well, it helped me a lot anyway.

Click here to visit the Guy gets girl site. Check it out for yourself!

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Relationships Tips

October 29th, 2009

The start of a Relationship is often the easy part of a relationship. The tricky part is to maintain the connection. Therefor there have been an increase in the number of couples that are going to couples therapy as a preemptive strike against the tough times that often will come. The key to a healthy relationship is to learn how to keep the good times flowing.

To give you head start in your love life, I have the most importent relationships tips that top relationship experts have uncovered the llast years -  from a little gestures to big-picture philosophies. These tips will help you and your partners relationship to be a healty and happy place.

1. Act Out of Character

Often couples develop a special dynamic in there relationship. How the speak, act and realte to each other, its the same thing over and over agian. Break that pattern and act against  — in a positive way of course — you will inject new life into the relationship.

2. Get in Touch a Lot

Its not a secret that you  hug, kiss and say godmorning to each other. you maybe even  snuggle a little after having sex.  But its does simple acts of caring and loving thats really counts, like stroking her arm while you’re watching TV, taking her hand when you’re walking down the street, or fondling his thigh during dinner are also ways to bond. Touching your is a importent part of you realtionship. By doing things with you partner throughout the day, will triggers your feel-good hormones, which reinforces your affection and makes you feel closer on an instinctive level.
5. Take Turns Talking

When you have a disagreement with your partner make sure you both get a chance to say what’s on your mind,  then your points will get across — alternate playing reflective therapist, where one listens while the other talks.

That was my most important relationships tips that I had to share with you today.

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How to Flirt with Girls

October 28th, 2009

Heres some small but very effectiv tips on how to flirt with girls.

1. Smoke up.
If you’re a smoker, you can use it to your advantage. Lift your face up with a cool look in your eyes, and blow the smoke up. This suggests confidence, superiority, and positivity. Smoking down, on the other hand, conveys you are negative, secretive, and suggestive.

2. An intimate gaze.
Look at the female with confidence and hold the gaze for a good 3 seconds or so, before turning away with a smirk.

3. Hands on hips.
This goes to show your physical size and readiness for the female.

4. Touch her on the knee.
If things are going well, a little physical touch is a great way of showing interest, and showing confidence. Touch her on the knee lightly, hold her shoulders, or brush by her gently as you go to the bathroom or bar. Definitely good ways of making her blood hotter!

5. Tease her.
Yeah, tease her. This shows that you’re confident enough to bust her balls–and get away with it–and that you’re interested. It’s kind of like when you were a kid and would harass the girls in school you were interested in. But this is done more subtly, and with higher rewards at stake.

The best, however, is the old “thumbs in belt” gesture. This highlights the genital area and showcases one’s pride in that area. Definitely a positive step, if done confidently and convincingly.

Now that you know what to look out for and how to display your interest, you’re on your way towards attracting and noticing girls. Good luck!

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Flirting Body Language – The Secrets

October 27th, 2009

Do you want to learn the female flirting body language secrets that will change your game forever?

Are you interested in flirting with a girl so well that she becomes irresistibly attracted to you?
That what i tought! Then you have came to the right place.

How to tell if the girl you are with is interested in you? It doesn’t matter whether she is interested in you, your job is to make her interested eventually anyway.

But look for these signs to show you whether you’re already making progress.

Most are applicable to both sexes.

Her lips:

* Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
* Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth.
* She wets her lips, some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip, while others run the tongue around the entire lip area.
* She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
* She protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts forward.

Her eyes:

* She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.
* She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, this is often combined with a smile and some eye contact.
* She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
* While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
* Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile indicates interest in you.

Her hair:

* She pushes her fingers through her hair. This can be one hand movement or more of a stroking motion.
* She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
* She is throwing her hair back off her shoulders.

Her clothing:

* If she is wearing clothes that show her nipples underneath and you notice they are getting perky and erect.
* The hem goes up to expose a little more leg.
* She is fixing, patting or smoothing her outfit to make herself look better.

While she is seated

* She moves in time to the music, with her eyes on you.
* She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
* She is sitting with her legs open.
* She sits with her legs crossed in a manner to reveal her thigh.
* Her legs are rubbing against each other.
* Her legs are rubbing against the leg of the table.
* Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.

Her hands:

* She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
* While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
* ]She rubs her wrists up and down.
* She sits with one hand touching one of her breasts.
* She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she’s thinking about you and her relating in some way.
* She is fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the table.
* She plays with her jewellery, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
* She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.
* She is pretending to look at her watch as you pass her.

Her voice

* She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
* She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
* She laughs in union with you.
* In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.

Miscellaneous:

* She mirrors your body language and body positions.
* Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
* She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
* She leans over and speaks into her friend’s ear, just like in junior high school.
* She is standing with her head cocked slightly at an angle, one foot behind the other, hips slightly thrust forward.
* At a party – every once in a while she seems to appear out of nowhere in your vicinity and if you move to another spot, soon she appears out of nowhere again, you catch her glancing in your general direction, she bumps into you… accidentally, touches you… accidentally etc…

All these signs usually tell you that the person is interested in you. But before you get there, chances are that her body language changes as the discussion progresses.

Make sure that you watch her closely and as soon as you get a sign that should be an indication that you are on the right track, keep going in that direction.

If the opposite happens, just change the subject and see what happens.

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Top Dating Tips – Top 7

October 26th, 2009

First Date
The top dating tips include making the first date a memorable one. This is your first impression and you will never get this opportunity back. This is your one and only shot and you have to take this first date very seriously.

Smile. Yes, Smile. Well-placed smiles, jokes and a overall happy attitude can be the right way to the women´s heart. Who want do date a grumpy guy?
In this sense: Look like enjoying yourself whatever you do!

Past is the Past
Sometimes your past should be your past, atleast on the first few dates. You need to save some information for later dates.
Doing this is a sign you are not over it yet and that is a big turn off to a woman.

Taboo Subjects. don’t go there, just don’t do it.
Don’t get involved into highly arguable subjects such as “Your cousin who is in jail for kidnapping” or “Your hate against santa and his dwarfs” or “How drunk you got last night and how your puked looked like” or something of that sort. The resason you talk to a girls is to establish a nice and relaxed atomosphere, not to get them angry and thinking of you like some kind of freak. Keep the conversation nice and normal and avoid “field mines”. Then you will be pefectly good.

Say Her Name
Present you: “Hi, I am Chris” and then she will most probably tell you her name out of politeness.  Use her name thruout the talks with her. This alone creates a more intimate atmosphere.

Be Confident
Confident is simply a state of mind; believing that everything is going to be okey and putting your thoughts into action.
So take a deep breath and say to yourself “This date is going to be a real success; This date is going to be a real success;This date is going to be a real success;” With this mantra always on hand to guide you, all this positive thinking will eventually leak into your actions and leave you feeling confident about your date.

Look Your Best
Finally is the pay attention to your appearance. Dress for the event you have chosen for the date. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Dress nice without over doing it. If you keep it somewhat casual, you should be okay. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.

That was my top 7 dating advice. Hope you liked them.

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First Date Advice

October 26th, 2009

My first dating advice is that you need to think about common interests.This is nice because not only does it give you both stuff to talk about without boring one another, it also helps for birthdays/christmas so you know what to get as gifts. In short this is the personality side of things. Not only that, but you need to know that you don’t have to modify a massive part of you lifestyle to make them accept you.

As top dating tips you also would need to know if the person is committed & understanding of your current situation. You need to know if you can trust them. If you don’t trust the person then that can lead to suspicions & that is bad for any relationship as it ultimatly leads to the split up.

Save yourself some pain & consider my points.

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